I would do anything to take my husbands place. I wish it was me. Maybe partly it is, who knows. He told me he is glad it’s him because he can actually sympathize with me because of it 😦
Breaks. My. Heart.
An Anchor to My Soul
learning how to live with my hope secure
An Anchor to My Soul 
It’s really wonderful that you are both so sympathetic to one another. This experience, although a royal PITA, is going to make you grown closer. You can’t help but love each both more for sacrificing each of yourselves for the beautiful baby that will come from it.